Los prolegómenos (o por qué detesto el cunnilingus)

With this piece, Prolegómenos (or Why I Detest Cunnilingus), featuring a text by Cristina Fallarás, I want to remind everyone that women are not bodies to be quickly resolved. Listening to us, feeling with us, and respecting our desires is the only path to true pleasure-because pleasure is not automatic, nor is it guaranteed: it is a connection. And it's not about doing it fast, it's about doing it right. Pleasure is a shared experience. One of the reasons we sometimes choose not to continue with someone we've shared intimacy with is simply that we feel uncomfortable, and no longer want to go on. You can always, always change your mind-and you have every right to do so. Because pleasure and sexuality are a choice, not an obligation. Every day is March 8th. With this piece, Prolegómenos (or Why I Detest Cunnilingus), featuring a text by Cristina Fallarás, I want to remind everyone that women are not bodies to be quickly resolved. Listening to us, feeling with us, and respecting our desires is the only path to true pleasure-because pleasure is not automatic, nor is it guaranteed: it is a connection. And it's not about doing it fast, it's about doing it right. Pleasure is a shared experience. One of the reasons we sometimes choose not to continue with someone we've shared intimacy with is simply that we feel uncomfortable, and no longer want to go on. You can always, always change your mind-and you have every right to do so. Because pleasure and sexuality are a choice, not an obligation. Every day is March 8th.